Trying to end a relationship is usually difficult. Discovering that you have relationship addiction can feel similiar to a slow death.
In your mind, you know that you don't want him, or her, in your life anymore. You realize that he, or she, is not good for you- that being involved with this person almost always ends up being bit by a rat, or your having your heart torn apart and broken all over again....just after you mended it...again.
Isn't it funny, well not really funny, how you know that you need to stay away from this person... but you just can't ? How did it end up getting this way? Why does this keep happening with the partners in my life? Why is it so hard to leave and say good-bye? And especially- why do I keep choosing the ones that mistreat me and why do I keep wanting to continue a relationship with them, when I know they aren't good for me??
Life may seem to you pretty complex and difficult, do you agree? Does it seem to you like you'll never have peace in your life- let alone have a peaceful, loving relationship? Is it hard for you to find the answers- even though you've read all of the latest or popular relationship books and spoke to many of your freinds for advice ?
Most importantly- are you ready for a change ? If your answer is "yes", than you're in for a treat because no matter what you think and feel on the contrary- your relationship problem can be easily and quickly solved. And making that decision is the first step!
Do not give up- no matter what you have read and learned, and no matter what you have tried to do to improve yourself - as you still find yourself in the same rut, with the same problems - your failures have not been through fault of your own. Do not blame your self, because you did't know any better and besides that, feeling sorry for yourself or blaming yourself, or another person will definately not improve your life- but carrying on as so- is a guarantee to make life worse.
If you're interested in having a short session with me, Vicki Mah, over the phone - which will catapult you on your way out the door of your bad relationship, contact me- and I'll have you not wanting to go back- it's as easy as that! Send me a quick email here, with your phone number, and I will contact you usually within the hour - Try me- you'll be so glad you did!
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